Princess Allwell Ademola is not only a talented actress,
she is a producer/director extraordinaire. Still single, she reveals why her marital status hasn’t changed despite her growing fame.
Why is Allwell not married?
I would have been married some years back, I lost my man two months to our wedding. He was shot by armed robbers and I mourned him for two years. After then, I went into another relationship with my best friend who was supposed to be our best man. (He was my friend and he later became my man’s friend.) I later realised I didn’t know him well enough
after we dated for eight months.
That was another heart break. Haven suffered two heartbreaks , I decided to take it easy and fell in love
with my job. For now, I am fine without a man.
So how do you manage sex since you are not in a relationship?
Sex for me has to do with my mind. If I was in a relationship, I
could be very active sexually but since I am not in a relationship, what could bring the thought of sex into my mind? Even when I was in a relationship, I forget about sex when I am very busy. However, because I am human and the urge comes, what I do is call some friends and we hang
out together.
Thank God, there is also sex toy. Sex toy will not break
one’s heart or impregnate one. But that doesn’t mean that I use sex toy, I am telling you the options available.
Have you been embarrassed at any time because of your size?
That has happened a lot of times but I don’t allow it get to me.
There was a day I was taking coffee in my Pastor’s office and a lady stepped in. The lady in question didn’t know what I had in the cup , so she felt it was chocolate and started educating me on what is best for me to eat. However, I was angry and asked her what made her think I don’t like what I look like. I even went as far as telling her I don’t wish to be like her because she was skinny. At the end of the day, she
was the one who left my pastor’s office embarrassed. My father once taught me that nobody can make you inferior without your consent.
Another one happened at an eatery. I was telling the attendant what I wanted which was fried plantain, salad and moimoi. The man next to me screamed, saying I don’t need fried plantain in the presence of many.
Iwas furious and gave him what he deserved for embarrassing me.