Iyabo Ojo, a popular Yoruba movie actress, has revealed the three things that may likely happen to couples who decide to endure an abusive marriage. She made this known on her Instagram page while reacting to the death of Bimbo, where she advised couples to leave an abusive marriage so as to have a peaceful life.
She disclosed that an abusive marriage is when love is no longer sweet and you refuse to walk away no matter the difficulties you may be facing. She stated that it is either the abused person is in denial or scared of starting all over again that may cause someone to endure such a marriage.
While mentioning the three things that may happen to a person who decides to stay in an abusive marriage, she said the first thing is that the person may die of physical abuse; the second thing is emotional abuse; and the third thing is mental abuse.
She revealed that people who stay in an abusive marriage are joking with bondage of the mind, which never ends well.
She made it clear that it is never too late to leave the marriage whenever you start seeing the abusive signs and that people should forget about the fact that they don’t want to leave because of their children or maybe because they struggled together. She said that people should stop hoping that their partners will change, stating that it is impossible to change people who have already moved on from you.
She advised people to read about narcissism while insisting that it is very real. She disclosed that if your partner has got narcissistic behavior, it is a case that you can never win and at that moment you have to runaway from the marriage. She warned that when a person dies in an abusive marriage, the children, friends, and family will cry, eat, sleep, and move on with their lives because that is the reality of life.